One of the most common questions about menstrual management is: can I use the menstrual cup if I am a virgin? You should know that the answer is yes and that it is totally safe. From your first menstruation you can use it regardless of your age or your sexual activity. In this article we will tell you some things that can help you decide to use it.
What is virginity?
Virginity is a term that can be interpreted in many ways. Throughout history it has been defined as the moment when the hymen is broken during heterosexual intercourse. But nowadays its definition is broader. Virginity is nothing more than whether or not a tissue breaks, it is a physical "condition" as well as an emotional one. You are the only one who can decide when you have lost your virginity and what being a virgin means to you, regardless of the type of activity you have or the sex of your partner.
So no, virginity is not lost by using a menstrual cup. If you decide to use it as a virgin (or even if you are no longer a virgin) it won't change anything sexually. What it does do is that it can help you get to know parts of yourself that you didn't know 100%, such as your vaginal canal, labia or cervix.
Can the menstrual cup hurt my hymen?
The truth is that the hymen is an overrated body part. In the past, people thought it was a proof of virginity. As if it were a shield that breaks when you have sex for the first time. Today, however, science has shown that the hymen is a set of folds of tissue that wear down over time.
When you start menstruating your hymen will most likely have a few holes in it, or even be virtually non-existent. This means that using a menstrual cup should have very little effect on the hymen, if any at all. If you think your hymen may be intact or have any doubts, you can always see your doctor before you start using the cup.
Which cup should I buy if I am a minor?
Menstrual cup sizes vary by brand. But most make cups in different sizes to suit the needs of different women. The vaginal canal of a woman who has had children is larger than that of a girl who has just started menstruating. Sizes are usually small and large, although some brands also handle extra-large sizes. We recommend choosing the smallest menstrual cup you can find. This will make it easier to put it on and take it off, plus it will be more comfortable to wear.
Using the menstrual cup for the first time
If you decided to use the menstrual cup and you already have it in your hands we will give you some tips to make it easy to use it from the beginning. We even have an article dedicated to the use of the cup for beginners that can be very helpful.
If you have used tampons before, you are probably more familiar with the act of inserting something into your vagina. Even if you are not, we recommend taking your time to try the cup. It is normal that the first few times it may be difficult to insert it correctly and also that you may have trouble taking it out. With a little practice it will become easier and easier. The important thing is that you are in a quiet environment, where no one will interrupt you.
Try to be relaxed, because nerves can cause your muscles to tense up, which may cause some pain. Make sure you wash your hands well before you start handling the cup and don't forget to read the instructions.
The menstrual cup does not affect your virginity, so you can use it with peace of mind and enjoy all its benefits. There is no minimum age to start using it and it is totally suitable for any teenager having her first period. All you need is a little preparation and patience to become an expert in no time.
